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The REAL Reasons we get DISTRACTED & the Proven Ways to GET FOCUSED! by Shelley Mitchell

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The REAL Reasons we get DISTRACTED & the Proven Ways to GET FOCUSED! by Shelley Mitchell

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WHAT keeps stopping you, slowing you down on getting in your way of HAVING what you really want?

(ADHD or not… the answer is usually the same)
I ask this question of my potential clients who come to me because they are ready to move to the next level in their business.
It’s also the same questions I ask my current clients who gets stuck.
We ALL Get STUCK from time to time but do want to know what the #1 answer is I hear from 99% of folks?
“I can’t stay FOCUSED” – OR – “I keep getting DISTRACTED”…
 
DISTRACTIONS or “not being able to FOCUS” is the number #1 KILLER of our success!  (in our business, our lives, our health, our relationships, our careers and the list goes on!)
So my blog this week is about…

The REAL Reasons we get DISTRACTED & the Proven Ways to GET FOCUSED!


First of all, we may not realize this but FOCUS is a limited resource.

YUP!  We keep trying to find “more” FOCUS when we have used it all up on something else.

Knowing that it’s limited, you have to CHOOSE what you want to use it for.

Here are some causes of “DISTRACTIONS” which cause us to use up our FOCUS resource and have nothing left for what we thought we wanted it for.

1.  You are using up your FOCUS on the wrong things – 

According to Psychology Today, “Every time you focus your attention you use a measurable amount of glucose and other metabolic resources. Studies show that each task you do tends to make you less effective at the next task, and this is especially true for high-energy tasks like self control or decision making so distractions really take their toll.”

FIX – “Know” that your FOCUS is limited and actually make conscious choices to how you want to use it. A daily plan could act like a checkbook register for how you want to spend your FOCUS.

2.  It might not be IN YOU to actually get it done – 

Another conversation I have a lot, including when I’m talking to my son which he working 6 days a week at his intensive summer sales job is about trying to force yourself to do something that really isn’t IN YOU to do…

 If something is not in line with your internal values (and you may not even know what those are) then no matter how hard you try to do something,

SOMETHING ELSE will always seem to get in the way.

So while you are beating yourself up over and over again for “not getting something done”, the truth is… that your values are talking to your brain and preventing you from doing it.

And now you are exhausted and feel worthless and wonder “why can’t I just get that done?”.

FIX – I suggest you get in tune with what those values are and create your to-do list from things that will SUPPORT what you truly want to accomplish and not what you THINK you SHOULD BE doing. A “Values” test through a coach or the “The Passion Test” which we do for our Get Your IPA On clients is a great resource.

3.  “Winging It” is NOT a Plan – 

We get up, have an idea of what needs to happen, make the coffee, start getting ready for the day and you head to the office (in home or out) and 3 hours surprisingly pass and you have NO IDEA what happened. You were working, you were busy and you knew there was something you NEEDED to do because you couldn’t sleep the night before thinking about it. But something else happened, something went wrong, someone had a problem for you to solve, the traffic was bad or the dog got sick, who knows….

If you aren’t planning out your day, IN WRITING, and the things you are planning are not in line with your biggest priorities and your values, it really isn’t going to get done unless you just happen to get lucky.

FIX – Have a DAILY plan, a weekly plan and an overall VISION/MISSION for your life and business at a minimum. We focus on 30 days and 90 days at a time with our clients at My Personal Business Coach because we are working on adding an extra 6 figures to our business each year.

Your Daily Plan should have specific STEPS that are moving your vision/mission and GOALS forward and they should be quantifiable. (you should be able to “measure” them.)

4.  It’s Not In the Calendar – 

I created the Daily Success Planner after having thousands of people love the Weekly Success Planner. I’m a master at getting things done… but only when it’s IN MY PLANNER.

When I started working with my Health Coach, I agreed to drink a greenie each day. But each time I met with her, I had accomplished a LOT each week but that was the one thing that never happened. SOMETHING always got in the way. We were both stumped!

She called me one day and very loudly said “I figured it out!”. You are NOT drinking your greenies because there’s no place in your new Daily Success Planner for this. She said she “knew that I didn’t do anything unless it was in my planner”…  We discovered that I had incorporated the self-care piece in my Weekly Success Planner but didn’t carry it over to the Daily Planner.

SO, as you will see, PRIORITY #2 is now “ZEN” which is the place I put that one simple thing I can do for myself each day.

FIX – If it’s not worth tracking, it’s not worth doing. SCHEDULE what is important to you and hold that appointment with yourself. Give it the importance it deserves.

5.  The Oreo’s Have Voices! – 

One of my philosophies on how help our clients is to use the “OREOS IN THE PANTRY” method. That’s how I explain to my clients about what I do to help them. ELIMINATING the distractions are important. No one has the perfect willpower, 100% of the time.

If I was a health coach and we were cutting out sugar, we would throw the oreos OUT because we all know that they start calling our name from the pantry in the middle of the night.

I help my clients determine what the “oreos” are in their business and their life that are preventing them from accomplishing things that move their business forward.

FIX – You have to ask yourself the question “what got in my way this time?” and really think about it. Figure out what your “oreos” are and then throw them out, or give them away to someone really skinny 🙂

Ready to GET FOCUSED?

Get Your Weekly Success Planner and the DAILY Success Planner HERE – as my gift to you.  DOWNLOAD PLANNERS NOW


In order to know and FOCUS on what’s really important, I want to share this with you.

Here are 3 +++ AMAZING RESOURCES to FIND YOUR FOCUS!

Succeed with ADHD Telesummit! (starts on 7/13)

Like Willy Wonka and his chocolate bar, your Golden Ticket is to the Succeed with ADHD Telesummit where you can learn all the secrets from ADHD experts on how to succeed with ADHD!

All you have to do is reserve your seat by clicking here:

Starting TOMORROW July 13, you can listen in to this 5th annual Succeed with ADHD Telesummit and hear from more than 20 of the world’s leading ADHD experts (including me) as we share our most up-to-date information, tips, strategies and techniques for succeeding with ADHD.

In fact, I will be there talking about…….ADHD is a gift!  10 Keys to leverage this gift to succeed in business and career (and yes, make more money!)
It costs you nothing to listen to all the speakers and you will have access to the best resources in the country regrading ADHD, Autism, your kids/teens, and MUCH MORE.  Click here for a taste of what you will learn…

Want to know the secrets to succeeding with ADHD?

Things that will help you…

  • Create a more satisfying sexual relationship with your partner
  • Get unstuck and into action
  • Eliminate homework battles and enjoy your children
  • Tame that mess, to do list, boredom and procrastination
  • Leverage your creativity into productivity in life and business
  • Advocate for your adopted ADHD child or at risk teen

– See more at: http://succeedwithadhdtelesummit.com/#sthash.qwZXHocB.dpuf

Once again, this one-of-a-kind Succeed with ADHD Telesummit starts Monday, July 13 and lasts one week, and I want to invite you to attend as my guest, completely f.ree of charge.

That’s right – there is no charge to listen in to these experts share their experience and behind the scenes answer for succeeding with ADHD!

?Don’t worry, if you can’t attend a call live, you will have access to the replays for 24 hours! Laurie is making this so easy…right?!

So, to grab your spot and listen in to all this great information, you simply need CLICK HERE to grab your spot!


3 Easy Ways To Build Your List in less than 2 weeks! 

(Sunday, 7pm, 7/12) click here to register!

 

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SUNDAY NIGHT! – Our weekly  CATAPULT Your Cash Flow! Expert Webinar Series- free training with Shelley Mitchell and special expert guests.

This week – Shelley and her LIST BUILDING SECRETS!!!
Build Your List – Build Your Business – Build Your Bank Account!

(Sunday, 7pm, 7/12) click here to register!


EMERGENT SOUL 2nd Annual Conference

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Emergent Soul is not just a conference. It is a community of like minded individuals who want to create and live their best life. Expand their happiness and love like they have never before. Our interactive workshops and engaging sessions will put you on the path to achieving your best life.
Click here to Register or get more information!

BEYOND CIRCUMSTANCE is coming to South Florida!

with Belanie Dishong (Aug. 18th and 19th)

Have you had a vision or desire to make something happen, and it is so clear that you KNOW it’s possible?

…only you come up against an obstacle?  Then suddenly, frustration and resignation set in.

There is a SOLUTION for what’s been
getting in your way!

In the Beyond Circumstances workshop, you discover exactly what limits your ability to produce different results.

In only two days:

       • Your life is transformed.

       • You break through what keeps you stuck.

       • Your patterns STOP!

The Beyond Circumstances™ workshop is the flagship Live At Choice™ program.  In just two days, it produces change that leads to:

       • Peace, clarity and freedom

       • More effective living

       • Happier and healthier families

       • Powerful, loving relationships

       • Financial and career transformation

Life becomes free of old ways of thinking and new choices become clear.  This workshop breathes life into forgotten dreams.  CLICK HERE TO REGISTER (my C-Suite Private Clients get TICKETS from me as a gift)


Speaking Empire

Speaking & Marketing Academy

Empowering Leaders To Empower The World


Tampa, FL  July 24th – 26th, 2015

For this, you have to REQUEST an invitation to even attend but please let them know that I referred you and that will help you be able to get in. CLICK HERE TO REQUEST AN INVITATION or Find Out More…

 

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10 Signs You Are A PROCRASTINATOR & the #1 thing I do PERSONALLY to get $hit DONE!

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10 Signs You Are A PROCRASTINATOR & the #1 thing I do PERSONALLY to get $hit DONE!
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Are you a PROCRASTINATOR?  I used to be a TOTAL PROCRASTINATOR and then I changed this one thing…
In my new blog just out today, (SEE BELOW) you will discover

“The 10 Signs You Are A PROCRASTINATOR and

the #1 thing I do PERSONALLY to get $hit DONE! 

– including going from totally ADHD and DISTRACTED to 2 published books & a multiple 6-figure business!

but first, YOU MUST JOIN ME

*******TONIGHT******* Dr. Yvonne Oswald LIVE!

 

It was not that long ago that I dialed in to a free call and heard this lady talk about this weird stuff called NLP and Hypnosis..

“Hmmm, interesting but that’s just a little woo-woo and would NEVER work for me” I said to myself but then…

I was chosen to be the “volunteer” for a TWO-MINUTE Exercise in front of hundreds of other people and I learned SOMETHING about myself that CHANGED THE COURSE of my life FOREVER!

 

Now TONIGHT, I have the PRIVILEGE and HONOR of interviewing that same woman and I get to SHARE IT WITH YOU!

Please join me as I interview Dr. Yvonne Oswald, Award Winning, Best Selling Author and she teaches us

How to Write Your Brilliantly Successful How-To Book!  (in two weeks or less)!

(and I might fill you in on that 1 thing I learned on that fateful night..  YOU could be next!)

 

CLICK HERE TO CLAIM YOUR SPOT (& share with others)

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Dr. Yvonne Oswald is my featured GUEST EXPERT tonight as part of my

CATAPULT Your Cash Flow! 

ongoing EXPERT Webinar Series FOCUSED

on your 6-figure & beyond success!

 

 

CLICK HERE TO CLAIM YOUR SPOT! (complimentary)

One registration to the free spot gets you -ALL ACCESS- to ALL of our LIVE Expert Webinars and top Industry Leaders, Inspiration and Motivation we bring to you  on a weekly and/or bi-weekly basis with amazing speakers such as…

 

  • Dave Van Hoose with the 7-figure Speaking Empire, 2 Men & A Secret “SPEAKING BLUEPRINT” that added over $212,000.00 to my business in less than 12 months!
  • Karen Alleyne-Means, Simple & Sexy SELLING Secrets!
  • Jim Hohl and Lucas Garvin with Visify, Automate Your Marketing and Stop Working Weekends
  • Caleb Sessions, Teen Entrepreneur/Author/Speaker, When All Else Fails… Make Friends With The Cops!
  • Jena Rodriguez,  Brand with Jena & The BRAVE Entrepreneur
  • Belanie Dishong, Create Your Results, Affirmations Don’t Work!
  • Vicky Townsend, The PASSION Test!  Do what you love & never work a day in your life!
  • Dr. Yvonne Oswald, How to Write A Wildly Successful HOW-TO Book! (in 2 weeks or less)
  • and many many more…

During this Expert Webinar Series…

You will DISCOVER the real-world secrets of creating and growing a 6-Figure Business and Beyond!
What you FOCUS on Expands!
We FOCUS on CASH FLOW and your SUCCESS
(Keep an eye on your inbox for your log in/ call in information) – YOU ONLY HAVE TO REGISTER ONCE for the entire series…

See ya Soon!

Shelley and The MPBC Team!

Again, you only need to register ONCE and you will have an ALL ACCESS PASS to all LIVE Webinars in this series!

Brand New BLOG Just Released!
By  Shelley Mitchell

Being TOTALLY ADHD with a Capital H, I had a very roller coaster life and career of STARTING everything and finishing NOTHING…

Now, as an expert in helping entrepreneurs and business owners turn their Passion into successful, PROFITABLE businesses, I’m a certified Business Coach and ADHD Coach, and even built a 6 figure business in my first full year and multiple 6 figures businesses thereafter… oh, and published 2 books.

 

Guess what!? 

I’m still totally ADHD -and- even though I might seem a bit unorganized at times and ALL over the place, the TRUTH IS that I get MORE DONE in one day than most people do in a week!

 

Here’s are the 10 signs to see if you are a PROCRASTINATOR and the #1 thing I do personally to get so much done!

 

(straight from Procrastinators Anonymous)  Compulsive procrastinators may not have all the signs listed here, but if you identify with many of these characteristics, you are probably a compulsive procrastinator.

1.    We keep disappointing other people and ourselves by not keeping our promises.

2.    Difficulty getting started on new projects or transitioning from one project to another.

3.    Poor Sense of Time – USUALLY LATE – chronically underestimating or overestimating how long a task will take us to complete.

4.    Difficulty organizing projects by breaking them down into steps; we don’t know where to start, even when we’re willing to start.

5.    Surrounded by clutter and disorganization in our homes and work spaces.

6.    We are regularly late for appointments.

7.    We are acutely aware of what we should be doing, or think we should be doing, and oddly out of touch with what we actually want and need.

8.    Trouble saying “NO” to requests from others, and instead express our resentment through the passive resistance of procrastination.

9.    Demand Resistance, (do what?)  We do anything and everything except the one thing we most need to do.

10.    Short-term thinkers, focusing on short-term pleasure while ignoring long-term well-being.  (if you don’t have a written daily plan or even a business/marketing strategy, you might be a PROCRASTINATOR)

OMG, after reading this list, that was/is SOOOOO ME!

But I have figured out the SECRET to tricking myself every single day.

While there are a lot of things that go into having a successful business, IMPLEMENTATION is the one biggest one you need to have.

Without, VISION, IMPACT, Marketing Strategies & Tactics and Systems in place, it could get a little messy but if you don’t take ACTION on what you need to do, it will NEVER happen.

The IMPLEMENTATION piece is where most people fall short.

So what is my SECRET WEAPON?  Or the weapon against my procrastinating nature…?

The answer is:  TIME BLOCKING!

Yes, Time Blocking!  This is my very tight-leash I put on myself.  Even my man knows to put the time we want to spend time together INTO my calendar.

If it’s NOT in my calendar, then it doesn’t happen, period…. 

WHY?  Because I’m so tough on myself?  Absolutely Not…

If I don’t put it in my calendar, I will FORGET everything, maybe even my name so time blocking keeps me on track with everything including:

•    what I was doing,

•    what I need to do,

•    what’s next

•    where I need to be,

•    what time I need to leave,

•    who I need to call and even simply,

•    how to plan my life

TIME BLOCKING – simplified

Color Coding –

Some people may think putting EVERYTHING in your calendar can be visually overwhelming, so I make sure I COLOR CODE my activities.

Also, when cash flow seems to be “slow” or I something seems to be going the wrong direction, I can easily look at the overall picture and see “by the COLOR” where I was spending most of my time.

The answer to my problems usually shows itself very quickly in the colors.

Here are the colors I personally use but I suggest you use what makes sense to your brain-style and your life.

  • GREEN – a potential or current CLIENT or JV (anything that may contribute to being an income producing activity)
  • BLUE – IN PERSON… Since I do a lot of my work on the phone or online, I needed a way to differentiate an “IN PERSON” appointment.  This way, I know if SPANX or mascara is going to be required…ahead of time and I’m not rushing around trying to find the two
  • PURPLE – anything personal from a doctors appointment to attending a party to my DATE NIGHT (and yes, I block out date night)
  • AQUA BLUE – anything requiring me to travel away from home/office.  Typically AQUA BLUE references the beach or ocean or a VACATION but since I made sure that I work the majority of my trips around my business.  So, whether I’m going to Hawaii for 2 weeks for vacation (which I’m sure to book a speaking engagement or something business related when I go.) or I’m traveling to my mastermind in St. Pete or speaking in Texas, it’s ALL AQUA BLUE.  I love to travel, meet new people and see new things, so this category gets my favorite color.
  • CORAL – this is an appointment where I’m getting COACHED or TRAINED or am working on business operations.  Its my own business development or personal development.  My call with Dustin Matthews or Dave VanHoose (my business and speaking coaches) is CORAL and my PLANNING TIME allocated SOLELY for the development of my business is all CORAL.  For me to do my blog, I have to block out the time to work on it – OR – IT DOESN’T GET DONE…  As I’m writing this, I’m in a CORAL block…
  • RED! – this means DO NOT FORGET, DO NOT CHANGE, SOOOOO IMPORTANT….. whether it’s my one day event “Speak Sell Serve Live” which is blocked out of my calendar, my private masterminds I’m doing with my clients or personal commitment like the Training Committee with Junior League of Boca Raton, this is RED in my calendar, so I know that it’s NOT flexible, not negotiable and MUST ATTEND.
  • YELLOW – is tentative.  These are things that I would LIKE to do.  They show up as “open” and not marked as “busy” until I make it so.  I actually keep a separate calendar in Google with all of the ongoing networking events locally and in the towns we want to expand our presence, and when I see availability for me to attend, I BOOK IT.  My team knows that these are things we would “like to” do but if a client has an urgent need or we have a potential client to work with, they can OVERWRITE this area.  It’s all about PRIORITIZING.
  • GRAY – this is my gray area.  I block out my “get ready” time and my driving time to get to appointments so I don’t get caught the ADHD’ers most common trait of doing “just one last thing” and end up late again.

ALARMS/ REMINDERS!

I add pop-up reminders and alarms for important things, so I don’t lose track of time and for the most part.

Also, everything is usually blocked out in 1-hour increments.

LABELS!

I also add “labels” in my appointments like “SS” for Strategy Session or “CC” for Current Client so if I need to do a “SEARCH”, all of my history can be pulled up at a moments notice.

Having the information on your history, your future, and your productivity is HUGE and will be the key thing to adding $$$$ to your bottom line.

You CAN be an IMPLEMENTER!

This all may or may not make complete sense to you, so I suggest you analyze how your brain works and create systems that work for you.

First, there is NO SYSTEM IN THE WORLD that works for EVERYONE!  

Also, It takes 21 days of CONSISTENT use to form a habit so you can’t do it for a week and then say “it didn’t work.”

By the way, before my son left to college, we blocked out every Monday from 3:30 to 5 pm and it was HIS TIME.  If he wanted me to go to the grocery store with him or just sit outside and talk, it didn’t matter.  It was his time, and everything else was OUT of that moment.

He ultimately chose it to work on his topics for his TV show and brainstorm ideas for his business, school, etc. (which, of course, is my gift) but it didn’t matter.  If he chose to bake cookies together, then that’s what we would do.

IMPLEMENT and BE IN THE MOMENT!

The bottom line is that you have to live life IN THE MOMENT you are in.  You can’t be IN one moment, yet thinking about another.  It’s not fair to YOU, your clients or the people you love. (I’ve theoretically known this but Sharon Wacks imprinted this in my head several years ago)

With that being said, your brain does NOT have the capacity to PARK all that information all at once, to draw from, at any given notice.  So STOP trying to make it work that way and then beat yourself up for forgetting things and not getting things done.

If you find yourself NOT reaching your goals in your business and any of these things resonate with you, I’d like to offer you a GIFT of a “CATAPULT Your Cash Flow” Session with one of my Master IMPLEMENTATION Coach-sultants.

CLICK HERE TO SCHEDULE YOUR FREE GIFT TODAY!

or call 561-320-1517

My Son had a run-in with the COPS again!

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My Son had a run-in with the COPS again!
Can you join me and my friends, Jim and Lucas, tonight? I SPENT ALL WEEKEND working on putting all this together to get out to you JUST so that you wouldn’t miss this! And now I’m ready to scream!

I still haven’t figured out how to AUTOMATE this piece yet!  (and am waiting on COMCAST to come because my INTERNET, TV and PHONE all died Friday afternoon right in the middle of working with a client!  Aghhhh!

(I tweeted them… NO Response… their internet must be down too!)When I talked to my good friends, Jim Hohl and Lucas Garvin, the other day and they agreed to a PART of my Expert Teaching team for my 6 week signature program “Get Your IPA On!”, I was jumping up and down at Bloomingdales!  (that’s where I was when I talked to him as I tried to squeeze in some birthday shopping for one of my coaches, after a Boca Chamber Luncheon.)

Over 150 business owners and entrepreneurs have gone through my program in the last 18 months and 100% our graduates are Making MORE MONEY – GUARANTEED -! (click here to learn more)

You HAVE TO MEET THESE GUYS!  Not only are they 2 amazing,  genuine guys but they are Co-Founders of Visify LLC, and they DO the part that I AM MISSING!  (I certainly know how to pick my friends:-)  (JOIN ME TONIGHT!)

They are the KEY I’ve been looking for in my program for Module 4 – Systems & Organization – to bring to my clients since as “automation” has saved my life, but there is still a missing link I NEED IN MY BUSINESS as well!

I could go on and on about what makes them DIFFERENT (which you will discover for yourself tonight) but FIRST THING I immediately notices when I first met them last year was that one of the 2 of them was a sweet, unassuming TEEN 18-year-old entrepreneur, and they had just had their first SIX FIGURE MONTH! – yes, that was NOT A TYPO!

Jim, who you will LOVE, agreed to join me tonight for a FREE TRAINING WEBINAR, and give us all an appetizer on

“How to put your Marketing on AUTOPILOT”!
Please CLICK HERE TO JOIN ME tonight for this one-time only FREE WEBINAR where you will DISCOVER…

  • how they built a 6-figure business VERY QUICKLY and are now almost to a 7-figure business,
  • WHY they re-branded even when they were doing GREAT and
  • HOW We Can Put This Marketing, $hit on AUTO PILOT so we can stop working WEEKENDS!

Jim Hohl & Lucas Garvin with Visify
(Sunday – 7 pm eastern – DON’T MISS THIS!) CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE SPOT on this webinar

BTW, I already have a personal appointment with Jim this week because once I can get all of my MARKETING ON AUTOPILOT, I’m GOING TO PARIS, dammit!  

But in the meantime, I can spend more time with the two guys I love the most, Caleb and Dan! (and spend less time cursing Comcast!)

Oh, which reminds me!  I almost forgot to tell you about Caleb, my 19-year “entrepreneur” son, HAD A RUN IN WITH THE COPS AGAIN!  He’s in Dallas working for the summer and this time, it was different!

I wrote about it in my blog… so here ya go…hot off the press…  Have a great rest of the weekend!

To you SUCCESS!
Shelley
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My son “teen entrepreneur/ author/ speaker”
had a run-in with the COPS, again!”
By Shelley Mitchell

I’m pissed! The summer is here after surviving my baby being gone away to college for his freshman year.  He was supposed to come home, so this is NOT what I was expecting!

“Baby” equals 6 ft. 2 in., 19 yr-old love of my life who decided to take a crazy door-to-door sales job in Dallas for the summer!  Are you kidding me?  He said to me “But I’m 18 now ma’ and I can do what I want…”.  I couldn’t believe my ears or my heart!

Reading this, you may or may know not know our story.   Many of my friends and clients know all the details as I’m an open book but…

My son, Caleb Sessions, published 3 books, had a TV show and spoke on stages at events, conferences and more from the ages of 16 to 18. He also has spent the last year away at college the at the University of South Florida in Saint Pete and also working for the Speaking Empire.

No big deal, right?! There are tons of brilliant teenagers out there.  Many of them graduating with 5.0 GPAs, now studying pre-law or pre-med with plans to save the world.

To me, as a mom who has gone to hell and back with this kid, it’s a big deal.

At 12, his dad died. All went downhill after that. By the time he was 16, he was failing school, was overweight, had untreated ADHD, had few friends and had been arrested.  I was a single mom who had lost my house after being laid off from a high-level Vice President position in corporate and had taken a job where I had settled, just to make ends meet. The ends weren’t meeting very well either.At the time, I thought he was lazy. Everyone did.  But after he was diagnosed with ADHD, I was totally baffled. He was never a problem, and he never got into anything. He never really did anything. He never took action; he didn’t implement.

He never put effort into anything at all. Totally opposite of his mother who takes action so quickly that I have been compared to “Tigger” or the “Tasmanian devil”, or a rocket that takes off even before looking both ways to cross the street.Neither of these personality traits is very good for you. Believe it or not, they are both traits of someone with ADHD.

Many people who have recently come into our lives the last two years, who didn’t know where we came from, may argue that he’s “lucky” to have a mom who is a “business coach” and that’s why he’s had success with speaking and becoming an author publishing 3 books.

Our close friends know the truth, LOL, I couldn’t even get him to take the trash out!

You could also argue that maybe it’s why he has sold over 1,000 books, one at a time while he was still in high school.

Or maybe that’s what got him into college? (Hmm, he still hasn’t passed the WRITING part of his SAT’s! or Math class, the first time around anyway.)

Maybe that’s what got him his social media director position at the Speaking Empire? Maybe that’s what made him want to go take a door-to-door sales job for the summer in Dallas to make extra money for school?

Not! He knew damn well when he told me he wasn’t coming home for the summer that I would be an emotional mess.

All year long, I looked forward to him coming home for the summer. (My friends have me on a peanut-butter-M&M-Watch ever since he left for Dallas)

This last year was one of the hardest years of my life being away from him.   While I was really proud of him, I’ve been so worried about him as well.

But once I realized I couldn’t manipulate or “guilt” him into staying, I knew I needed to be supportive and to be a “COACH” and not the crazy-ass mom that I can be (& who has even written about in school).

So before he left, I did a “Business Breakthrough Strategy Session” with him, just like I do with new and potential clients.   I took off my crazy–ass-mom hat and put on action-oriented, find-your-focus, Business and Adhd Coach hat.

Just as I did two years ago with him when he started this journey, I went through the same process I do with my potential clients and current clients.   As hard as it was to want even to be supportive because I wanted him home with me, I helped him determine what he really really wanted to accomplish from taking the summer job.

His GOALS really shook me up!We created a direction, a GPS per se, for where he wanted to go. It’s not just about the money even though he did set money goals; we got very specific on many of the things that he wanted to accomplish.

Here’s the Step-By-Step process of what we did: (and that will work for ANYONE if you follow it)

  • First, knowing this was a 3 1/2 months stint, we had to be very clear, very specific and have an action list of exactly what to do to reach these goals
  • Second, we determined what hidden challenges have continued to get in his way in the past and what could get in the way of what we had just said we wanted.
  • Third, we created a REAL PLAN that would work for his unique brain-style, his life, and what he knew would work for him; not some cookie-cutter bullshit plan that most people/coaches/programs give you that doesn’t take into account the times when shit happens, not “if” it happens.
  • Fourth, we determined what resources and education he needed but we also determined what education and resources he did not need.

This way he could stay focused on what was important, so bright and shiny objects weren’t constantly distracting him.

 

The problem with most entrepreneurs is that bright and shiny objects are constantly distracting them.

 

They don’t know what to say yes to and what to say no to, so they’re either saying yes and no to the wrong things, or they say yes to everything or no to everything. None of those is going to work out well.

  • And finally I use the step of mastering your psychology. Sometimes this happens daily and sometimes it’s just weekly but he has made sure that he has the resources and support in place for when his mindset tries to take a hold of the best of him.
The first month he was in Dallas, he actually got to know some of the police officers on a first name basis!  He has been STOPPED by the COPS every week since he has been there!People, in general, seem live in FEAR, warranted or not, but NOT KNOWING who my son is, some of them had freaked out when he knocked on their door.  He wasn’t doing anything wrong.   He was just doing his job (is wearing an ORANGE vest and has a permit to be there) but other people had fears and issues with someone knocking on their door.

FEAR causes us to MISS OUT on something good when it’s staring us right in the face.
Oh, what I wouldn’t give right now to see my son standing on my door step!There was actually a murder in the neighborhood where he was a couple of weeks ago!  I was a mess and wanted him HOME.  With all the nervousness going on around him, he actually made a couple of sales.   That is not what I would say is an “optimal selling environment” though.

He has been cursed at and yelled at, and today he was walking around in 105-degree heat, wondering DAILY if he made the right decision. 

The long-distance away has even contributed to his break-up with his girlfriend, and he had been stuck out in the middle of multiple thunderstorms with his rain jacket I had bought for him before he left.
(this is the meme I texted him when he wanted to QUIT)But he has done his very best to keep his head screwed on straight knowing it’s only 3 1/2 months.

 
He’s there for very specific goals and a purpose so even though his own fears, doubts, and anxieties kick in, HE HAS A PLAN.   So what’s the moral of the story?

Well, it’s two-fold. Maybe three-fold.

The first month and a half, he wanted to quit every single day. It was ugly. He probably made $400 the first 45 days. Sound familiar?But now, he is often earning $2,000.00 a week!  (yes, as a 19-year-old)

So how does a kid, who was told by others (including statistics) he would never amount to anything, pull this one off?

Here’s why, so we can do it too!

  1. First, he’s CONSISTENT. (even when he’s tired, hot and just saw the cops again, he knocks on ONE MORE door)
  2. He keeps his MINDSET in check.  He has somebody with him every day who stays positive and supports him (a team leader is by his side and he calls me when necessary).
  3. Most importantly, he IMPLEMENTS.

He takes action because he prioritizes his business as if he only has 3 1/2 months to reach his goal.

 

He doesn’t pack up at the end of the day and mope about it and then waste time the next day trying to re-group.

 

He gets back OUT THERE immediately after having a setback.

 

 

 

 

If we prioritized our businesses as if we only had 3 1/2 months to accomplish our goals, we would…

  • truly STOP WHINING about what we aren’t accomplishing.
  • stop “researching” everything before taking action.
  • stop waiting for “perfect”.
  • stop complaining that our family members or friends aren’t supporting us.
  • stop complaining that we don’t have enough time, don’t have enough money, and don’t have enough blah blah.
  • just get this shit done and move on.

Top-notch college kids were recruited all over the country for this summer job, but I’m finding out that almost 50% have already been sent home or left on their own because they couldn’t handle it.

So what makes a kid who has never passed a math class the first time around, who has ADHD, whose dad died, was raised by a single too-busy-for-him, crazy ass mom, leave to Texas with only a plane ticket, 1 suitcase, and $20 in his pocket HAVE SUCCESS yet again?

Note… in an environment where mom isn’t around to help, and no one is really there to pick up the pieces.

It’s Simple. The ANSWER is knowing what your vision is, having a plan, and implementation.

Yes, we talk every day and sometimes, I have to be a coach and sometimes, I have to be a mom.  And while I’m freaked out most days as a mom, I’m so incredibly proud of him for staying true to his values and for following his passion and purpose. (even when others tell him he will fail)

So if the answer is simple, then why do business owners, and entrepreneurs keep STRUGGLING so much?

  • If you are floundering, one of these three (vision, real plan, or implementation) are missing, I can guarantee it.
  • If you aren’t making the money you deserve, one of the three is missing.
  • If your business sucks, one of the three are missing!
  • If you have a lackluster life in other areas, one of the three is missing.
  • If you are working a full-time job and that’s not working out so well, one of these three are missing, and most likely much of this is not in line with what your true values are.

It’s TIME to IMPLEMENT and the time is NOW!

 

You may be ready to RENEW YOUR VOWS to a business you once fell in love with – OR –

You are ready to rock and roll and want to CATAPULT your business and start sharing your message with the world, with your ideal clients, with the people who will happily pay you for the BENEFIT they get from working with you.

FIND Your FOCUS, – Stop Making Noise and Start Making Money!

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Join us for our 6 week Signature Program “Get Your IPA On!” which starts Monday. (click here for quick video)

This is our last time running this course LIVE (it’s going automated baby)…So be a part of history and the making of our final product.

 

 

 

 

We have amazing GUEST EXPERTS sharing their secrets… such as:

  • Belanie Dishong with Live At Choice for Module I – VISION (Creating The Business Your Really Really Want)

 

  • Jena Rodriguez, Be The Brand – Module II – IMPACT – finding your IDEAL Client and Speaking Their Language – Turn Your Message Into Money In The Bank!

 

  • Shelley Mitchell and Surprise Guest (You Don’t Want to Miss This) – Marketing Strategies that WORK!  Turn your Chaos Into Cash!

 

  • Jim Hohl & Lucas Garvin, Visify, – Module IV – Systems – The ones that save time & make you money (and the ones that DON’T)

 

  • and just partnered with another surprise expert for Module V for IMPLEMENTATION. (STAY TUNED) but

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BONUS Module is being added! 

 

How To Use Speaking To Position Yourself As an Expert In Your Industry! 

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“If I’m Such An “EXPERT” then WHY Am I Still BROKE? – by Shelley Mitchell, My Personal Business Coach

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“If I’m Such An “EXPERT” then WHY Am I Still BROKE? – by Shelley Mitchell, My Personal Business Coach
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Happy Midweek! and happy MID-YEAR!
I’m super excited with the influx of new clients we’ve had join our C-Suite Mastermind and our CATAPULT Coaching Program and the great journey we are embarking on with them to help them GROW their businesses and make MORE MONEY!

It seems as if people either DIDN’T have a real PLAN this year and are really tired of NOT GETTING where they wanted to go in their business – OR – they had a plan but have figured out that they just DON’T KNOW HOW to “implement”… 

As an expert Business Coach and ADHD Coach, the BIGGEST CHALLENGE I’m seeing right now with small business owners (especially those who have):
  • HIRED other coaches, or spent money with coaching companies/programs,
  • KNOW or finally realized they are EXPERTS in their PASSION,
  • want to start SPEAKING and teaching and even write a book (or wrote a book)
  • bought new “systems”,
  • invested in more training,
  • sought out coaching certifications,
  • invested in a new website,
  • got a LOGO and got branded and
  • the LIST OF EXPENSES goes on and on and on…..
… is that they are still BROKE! 

All that! and they either don’t have enough clients, enough money, enough time or are just WORKING THEIR ASSES OFF and can’t get off the hamster wheel!

SOOOOO, with that INSPIRATION, my BLOG is BORN….

(Hope You ENJOY!)

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But FIRST,

DISCOVER how to TAKE CONTROL of your business

and your CASH FLOW!  …

 

at EXTREME MAKEOVER!  Master Your Money Edition

(for biz owners)

We are almost SOLD OUT for this Monday’s 1-Day Only Event in South Florida with the amazing Celebrity Guest Master Mindset and Transformation Coach, BELANIE DISHONG!

CHECK IT OUT and if you have plans, CHANGE THEM!  It’s TOTALLY WORTH IT! – Monday, June 15th, in Boynton Beach!

click here for more info

 

 CHECK OUT THIS QUICK “a little crazy” 2 minute VIDEO! (click video below)

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“If I’m Such An “EXPERT” then WHY Am I Still BROKE?

By Shelley MItchell

You know you have a MESSAGE and something GREAT to share with the world SO WHY do you have such a hard time getting others to understand it, want it even or even pay you for it?

Here are my tips on HOW TO POSITION YOURSELF AS AN EXPERT and also have a PROFITABLE BUSINESS at the same time!
  • BE the expert!  Sounds simple but it’s not.  You have to think, feel and ACT like an expert in your industry.  If you don’t, why would anyone else trust that you are? Stop procrastinating and waffling around.  Before you do anything, THINK to yourself “What would the Expert in __(my industry)__ be seen doing or be overhead saying or ???”  Also, an expert wouldn’t spend their days or hours doing research and creating their website or hanging out on facebook.  What do you think they would be doing each day?
  • Narrow It Down!  Master your topic by DOING, not taking more training classes or googling it or researching the shit out of it for hours on it…  STOP IT… What this means is that you must have a TARGET MARKET and you must know in detail what their pains/challenges are and what they think they WANT from working with you.  The only way to know that is to actually start working with them and/or ASK them.
  • Plant Your Flag and say NO!  Position yourself as the expert by saying YES to the things that directly affect this… and actually saying NO to all of the “great opportunities” and bright-and-shiny-objects that will continue to come your way… if they don’t contribute to this goal.
  • Build Your List!  I could say this 1,000 times and there is still going to be someone out there who KNOWS this but still hasn’t followed up with their business cards, created their opt-in (designed for their target market) or is blogging regularly offering VALUE in order to build their following.  The size and engagement of your active list contributes to the bottom line of your business… SIZE MATTERS but QUALITY also trumps QUANTITY… So why wait?
  • Your MAGIC already exists!  Create Your FUNNEL with what you already have and what you already know.  Stop recreating the wheel and seeking “magic pills”!  You ARE the expert and you already have everything you need to create your packages, programs and products.  You just need to
    • get organized,
    • have a plan and
    • have a coach who knows how to get this done.

Your SIGNATURE PROGRAM is just a few steps away from the clutter you are sorting through to find your $hit… and is delayed by the confidence you aren’t having in yourself.  You MUST believe and then DO…

 

  • PROMOTE, PROMOTE, PROMOTE!  “YOU” are enough to promote.  Many people used to be great in sales and promotion working for someone else and then lost their way when they figured out they now have to “sell” themselves.  Get over it!  If you had to go get a job, you would have to promote someone you don’t even like as much and you know that YOU can help your clients the BEST.

So why are you not CONSISTENTLY marketing, promoting, and selling YOURSELF?

GOOD question!  And I bet the answer is NOT what you think!

Bus Driver!  MOVE THAT BUS!

 

 

JOIN US Monday, June 15th for a 1 time only, special 1 Day event in South Florida “Extreme Makeover!  Master Your Money edition (for business owners)”  with Belanie Dishong and Shelley Mitchell.

CLICK HERE TO GET MORE INFO

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CLAIM YOUR SPOT NOW!

 

Have a Fun, Fearless & FOCUSED Day!

 

Shelley

www.mypersonalbusinesscoach.com

Contact us at 561-320-1517

Extreme Makeover: Master Your Money edition (for business owners) is here for 1 Day Only! Monday, June 15th in South Florida

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Extreme Makeover:  Master Your Money edition (for business owners) is here for 1 Day Only! Monday,  June 15th in South Florida

#shelleymitchell, #belaniedishong, #extrememakeover, #moneymindset, #mypersonalbusinesscoachDesigned JUST FOR Business Owners and Entrepreneurs!

Extreme Makeover! Master Your Money Edition

1 Day Only! with Celebrity Master Coach, Belanie Dishong

Having your OWN business is HARD dammit! It’s NO walk in the park! and CHALLENGES pop up DAILY!

One at a time, these challenges might seem small but together,

they feel like a HUGE BUS that won’t budge, no matter how hard you PUSH!

And your “beloved business” you used to be so in love with… is NOW dragging you down and sucking the life out of you!

Well, Ty Pennington Ain’t Seen Nothing yet!

Bus Driver!  MOVE THAT BUS!

CLICK HERE TO REGISTER

“You will learn more about real-world BUSINESS & making MONEY in just 1 day than you have in 1 year!!”

Are you working your butt off in your business and are frustrated that you still:

• Don’t have the “right” people working for you?

• Your SYSTEMS aren’t completely in place yet?

• Only have a few clients and they aren’t the perfect IDEAL clients for you?

• Aren’t getting the RESULTS or making the MONEY you expected no matter how hard you work?

• Do you feel like no matter how much money you make, there is still is NOT ENOUGH to pay the bills and you can’t seem to get AHEAD?

• Are you struggling with procrastination, distractions and even challenges out of your control seem to keep popping up no matter how much “planning” you do?

• Are you OVERWHELMED, OVERWORKED and frustrated and can’t seem to get “FOCUSED” to do what you need to do… to have a SUCCESSFUL business?

• Are you tired of hearing “I Can’t Afford It” when trying to get new clients/customers or even get the current ones to continue to do business with you?

You’ll DISCOVER how to TAKE CONTROL of your business and your CASH FLOW! …

Learn how to start getting the ideal clients who want to PAY you for what you love to do and have them coming back for more!

  • IMAGINE what your business would look like if you had a real plan and knew exactly what to do and FOCUS on each day!
  • FEEL THE CONFIDENCE you’ll have knowing you can effortlessly find the right team members to support you and have a business FULL of your ideal clients
  • SEE YOURSELF having a business that you LOVE and experiencing the FREEDOM to do what you want, when you want and how you want because all of your SYSTEMS are in place

1 Day Only! Monday, June 15th from 9am-7pm in Boynton Beach, FL

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The VIP Experience!
for only $40, you are get the ENTIRE VIP Experience!

  • BRING A FRIEND FOR FREE! – VIPS get 1 General Admission Ticket to give away to a client or a friend (biz owner)
  • Early Access and SELECT Seating – Network with the movers & shakers… Seen & Be Seen! The early bird gets the worm!
  • LUNCH is INCLUDED! – General Admission has to leave to get lunch, you will have a PRIVATE Mastermind Luncheon to share ideas, brainstorm, IMPLEMENT and create Strategic Partnerships – Plus – Get Extra Time with Belanie and Shelley!
  • MP3 Recordings INCLUDED! – we will be recording most of the event and all VIP’s will have access to these recordings for FREE!
  • SPECIAL ROUNDTABLE SEATING & a place to write! – General Admission will not be at the same tables. VIPs have their own place to write and do the work they intend to do
  • GOODIE BAG! – Get free offers, GIFTS, coupons, snacks, and much more… all provided by our sponsors!
  • And So Much More…

Take $100.00 OFF NOW and CLAIM YOUR SEAT for only $37! VIP only $40 more…

Imagine What Your Business Would Be Like If You Could…

  • Set REAL MONEY GOALS you can IMPLEMENT right away using Shelley’s fast action 30-DAY CASH INFUSION PLAN
  • Take home the 5 steps to our P.R.O.F.I.T. System on how to start making more money IMMEDIATELY and build the foundation for adding 6figures to your business this year!
  • And FINALLY, learn how to
    Set up your business around your LIFE (rather than your life around your business) so you can FLOW freely to reaching your goals with Grace and EASE while making the money you truly deserve!
  • In Just ONE DAY, you GET ALL THIS & much more!

Emcee – Vicky Townsend!
Our Honored EMCEE and BANK P.H.D and founder of Cafe D and the National Association of Divorce Professionals. – VICKY TOWNSEND – She is also President and Founder of Inspiration University and W.I.N.G. (Women Influencers Networking Group).
Never seen before, Belanie Dishong, Live at Choice and Shelley Mitchell, My Personal Business Coach are TEAMING UP to bring you the ONE DAY you MUST ATTEND that could possibly CHANGE the way you do business forever!

Designed JUST FOR Business Owners and Entrepreneurs!

Join us on Monday, June 15th in Boynton Beach Florida. 9am – 7pm
Claim Your GAME CHANGING Seat!
“Your Event was TOP NOTCH! You have really created a movement that CHANGES LIVES!”
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“Put MONEY In My Bank Account and results were exactly what she promised!…”
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Why are you so afraid to charge what you’re worth? (I found the MISSING LINKS!)

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Why are you so afraid to charge what you’re worth? (I found the MISSING LINKS!)
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Why are you so afraid to charge what you’re worth?

(I found the MISSING LINKS!)

I hope you will check out my new blog below “The Four MISSING LINKS to Charging What Your Are WORTH!” But first, I can’t tell you just HOW EXCITED I AM about what’s coming up in just 3 weeks!!!!

I hope you are coming because there is NOTHING ELSE LIKE IT!

(& TEEN ENTREPRENEURS are totally F.R.E.E.! with you!)

DESTINED!

the DESTINED entrepreneur…

is a 3-Day Business Transformation Experience – all about FINALLY having the Resources, Systems and simple SOLUTIONS that WORK for YOU and your unique brain-style!

I’m working hard to put together all of the DONE-FOR-YOU services, Simple SOLUTIONS and Resources to help a crazy busy entrepreneurs get their FREEDOM back through more TIME, more MONEY and more SUPPORT.


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Why are you so afraid to charge what you’re worth? 

 

– the FOUR Missing Links ~

By Shelley Mitchell, My Personal Business Coach & My Personal ADHD Coach

Why are you so afraid to charge what you’re worth?

I see it every day!  Soul & passion-centered entrepreneurs and business owners who have an amazing gift or passion but keep giving it away for cheap or free…Why are we so afraid to charge what we’re worth?

There are sooooo many reasons why we do this…

After all, we are here to serve others and to help people, right?  And, too often we think to ourselves, “if I don’t help them, who will?

We hear “I can’t afford it,” from our prospects or when people do not immediately say “yes,” we start shamelessly LOWERING OUR PRICES  just to get the business.  And we even assume that if we do a really good job and help them, that they will eventually pay us, offer to pay more or call us back to do it again.

The truth though is that the person who said they “can’t afford it,” will buy from someone else!!!  You may even see them the following week running to the back of the room at an event and worse, they may buy from someone else who charged A LOT MORE and can’t help them any better than you can.

 

Why?  Well, it’s simple…missing pieces

There are FOUR “missing links” that you need to have in place and fully understand before you can get paid what you are truly worth:

 

 

1.  People “buy” based on the emotion of how they think they will feel as a result of using your product or service.  If they said “no” or “I can’t afford it”, it’s because you either -haven’t shown them the value of what it is that you are offering, or they don’t believe it will work for them. This in turn means you haven’t spoken their language and have identified their true pains and challenges. They buy what they “WANT”; it’s not about you…

2.  God didn’t put you here to be broke!  We were given our passions, our gifts, and our strengths to contribute back to the world. There was no intention put to you indicating that you need to sacrifice your own well-being or not have a profitable business in the process!  You still have to be able to grow and to continue to touch more people. I’m here to tell you that the only way you can do that is to make money and then you can give back even more. When you make more money in your business, you can create a charity or even a scholarship program to give to those who truly cannot afford something and you can also expand your reach in ways that are unimaginable.  Oh and another ingenious idea is that you can actually hire the help and support you need so you can go out and do more of your passion or gift and less of the things you’re not really good at or don’t want to do.

3.  People who are afraid to sell are also afraid to buy.  This could stem from being sold magic pills in the past or even more deep-rooted issues and now you are holding back on things that you really need for yourself because you are unsure and afraid. A reputable coach (note, I said reputable) can help you disseminate what you truly need and what you truly don’t.  A great business coach with a history of successful clients will always have your best interest at heart.  This will save you a huge amount of money, time and pain.shelley mitchell

4. Until you stop being “that person”, you will continue to attract those people.  Ouch! WTH!?!

A high-end coach, before I hired her, once said these words to me and it really pissed me off! I had asked the question before I invested thousands into her coaching program, “Well I can’t really afford it and what happens if I can’t make the payments.”

She then asked me if I had clients who were always struggling with payments, who continuously said they couldn’t afford it and who were also sabotaging their own success and growth. Yes! and whoa, I couldn’t understand how she knew that!

These words were very painful for me but I bucked up, and I moved through it.

I had to stop being that same person.  What happened over the next year was amazing! I attracted ten times better clients who paid me ten times more fees.

But most importantly, THEY were ten times more successful than the clients I had in the past, and they made me look good because of THEIR success.

My clients were having huge successes by leaps and bounds all because I had to get out of my own damn way!

 


“DOUBLED MY INCOME – CONSISTENTLY!”

 

Sabrina Fajardo The Brand Artisan

 

“I knew Shelley for years but when I started working with her as my COACH, I almost DOUBLED MY INCOME – CONSISTENTLY in the first 5 months alone…! 

 

She listens and she really cares about her clients. She helped me FIND MORE TIME for ME…”

 

Sabrina Fajardo, The Brand Artisan


 

 

So which one of these do you relate to? Which one of these resonates with you?

If none of them do, then I’m sure you have a very successful business, are making plenty of money and are touching as many people as you really truly know that you’re supposed to be touching.   If not, then please re-read them and be honest with yourself.

It would be my honor to invite you to my three-day business transformation event, DESTINED! The Destined entrepreneur. On March 27th – 29th in Delray Beach, Florida.

This is a very unique event where we bring all of the done-for-you services and simple solutions to the crazy busy entrepreneurs who need to get out of their own way so they can get back to doing what they are truly gifted at.

In turn, you come away with everything you NEED to have a successful profitable business but still get to be the smart, driven, creative business owner that you truly are and to share your message and gift with the world.

Click here to reserve your spot or get more information.

You can also enter into a drawing for a FREE TICKET to DESTINED! valued at $597! By clicking here!

In addition, if you are a provider of a done-for-you service or a simple solution that truly works for smart, driven entrepreneurs and adult/teen ADHD ‘ers… to help them run and grow their business and want us to connect you with your perfect, ideal client, please contact Lauren at support@Mypersonalbusinesscoach.com

The 7 Reasons EVERY Entrepreneur Ought to Know WHY New Years Resolutions Do NOT Work!

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In honor of a NEW YEAR and for everyone who is in the middle of creating their plan for 2015, here is the top reason New Year’s Resolutions DO NOT WORK and how to fix it!

Are any of the resolutions you are considering or putting in to place today the same exact ones from last year or even remotely similar?

What about your business/career? Your relationship? Your health? Your personal life?

Your BUCKET LIST??? Your income and finances?

OR WORSE?!

Are you resetting GOALS for your business that you wanted to reach LAST YEAR?

Join for our Business Plan Boot Camp (f.r.e.e. webinar this Thursday) REVENUE SURGE!  CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFO

Wouldn’t it be nice to set your intention today and actually ACCOMPLISH YOUR GOALS and NOT having to reset the same thing next year because something got in the way of accomplishing it as it did in 2014?

There will be lots of roadblocks and obstacles thrown in front of us in 2015. The difference is how equipped or prepared to handle them. There is a REAL WAY to actually reach your dreams and goals without having to beat your head up against a wall. My Personal Business Coach an(d My Personal ADHD Coach have proven methods to help you OVERCOME the obstacles that get in your way. We show you how and help you eliminate PROCRASTINATION, Lack of FOCUS, Dis-Organization, DISTRACTION, focusing on the wrong things and spinning your wheels, lack of or poor PLANNING, FRUSTRATION of not knowing what the next steps are or FRUSTRATION with the economy and not knowing why others are succeeding or having quicker results than you are, being Stressed Out, being OVERWHELMED, or just being plain ole’ STUCK.

If you are truly ready to make a lasting, permanent CHANGE, send us a message to schedule a no-cost STRATEGY SESSION to see if we are a good fit to help you finally reach your DREAMS and GOALS at http://www.mypersonalbusinesscoach.com/

Our GOAL is to help you get what you REALLY, REALLY WANT by using our 7 Step Methodology.

The 7 reasons New Year’s Resolutions DO NOT WORK is because we don’t have the 7 things below in place…  Check ’em out!

1. Determine your true VALUES so you can discover what it is YOU really, really want for your life and your business/career.
2. Get crystal CLEAR on your VISION and SET GOALS that ignite your passion so you can really ACCOMPLISH them.  This means HAVE A REAL PLAN THAT WORKS FOR YOU!Business Planning, Money and Marketing Success Planning Day

On Jan 8th, we are having our Money & Marketing Success Planning Day – LIVE!  – CLICK HERE TO CLAIM YOUR SPOT!

 

3. STRATEGIZE your Actions – Create a step by step, easy-to-follow PLAN and take real effective ACTION that moves your forward quickly.

Several ways you can do this is through our Business Plan Boot Camp f.r.e.e. Webinar.  Click here for details and CLAIM YOUR SPOT NOW

4. Upgrade your SKILLS – we show you how to determine your niche, your talents and what makes you unique so you can BRAND and MARKET yourself and your business and start building impactful relationships that keep you strong… through ANY economy.
5. Optimize your Environment – we help you MINIMIZE DISTRACTIONS and ELIMINATE PROCRASTINATION, get more ORGANIZED and have more FOCUS so you can have major BREAKTHROUGHS in reaching your GOALS.

Take advantage our Money & Marketing Success Planning Day LIVE or even ONLINE – where you get to set an entire day – DISTRACTION-FREE! so you can FOCUS on creating your REAL ROAD MAP for your business success for 2015!

6. Master your Psychology – we help you become proactive and eliminate those obstacles and barriers that have always gotten in your way in the past so you can move towards your dreams and Goals with ease so you are UN-Stuck, Un-Stressed and OUT of Overwhelm.
7. TEAM! – Accountability & Support – We all need a TEAM to support us.  NO ONE can do this ALONE! so STOP TRYING!  We provide you the accountability, support and mentoring with high-quality business coaching to put together the TEAM that works for YOU!  Imagine what it would be like to have a Partner to guide you every step of the way and KEEP YOU ON TRACK. No more getting side-stepped, no more negativity from frustrated friends, spouses or colleagues and NO B.S.! We also hold your best interest at the top of our list and always provide honest feedback. We are your true trusted source.

Again, If you are truly ready to make a lasting, permanent CHANGE, send us a message to schedule a no-cost STRATEGY SESSION to see if we are a good fit to help you finally reach your DREAMS and GOALS. http://www.mypersonalbusinesscoach.com/

You can also visit our website and get your GIFT.. Get your Exclusive Printable WEEKLY SUCCESS PLANNER template for FREE as our GIFT to you as a THANKS just for stopping in! (Having a GOAL without a PLAN is only a wish…)

 

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About Shelley:  Motivational Speaker, Author, Business Coach, Single Mom

Shelley Mitchell, My Personal Business CoachFrom COMBAT to COSMO to CORPORATE to COACH, Shelley Mitchell, a master at IMPLEMENTATION, is an expert at helping Smart, Driven Entrepreneurs, Business Owners and Professionals determine their VISION, create a PLAN, FOCUS and PRIORITIZE, take ACTION and MAKE MORE MONEY to reach their Dreams and Goals!

As the President/CEO of My Personal Business Coach LLC and My Personal ADHD Coach and creator of her wildly popular Signature Program “Get Your IPA On! Stop Making Noise and Start Making Money”, Shelley is also a certified Business and Entrepreneurial Coach, an ADHD Coach, a Nationally recognized Motivational Speaker and Teacher, and Author of several books such as “Build My List! Build My Business! Build My Bank Account”, “More Ways to Success with ADHD” and the upcoming books “God Didn’t Put Your Here To Be BROKE!” and “How to Get and Keep What You Really, Really Want”

Shelley Mitchell and her coaching company, My Personal Business Coach, offer a variety of ways you can work with them to CATAPULT your business, career and life, from Speaking, Training, Products, Programs, Intensive VIP Days, to her exclusive Gold and Platinum Coaching programs.

To have Shelley Mitchell SPEAK at your event or organization or If you’d like to find out just HOW you can CATAPULT your business, career and life to the next level, grab your FREE Weekly & Daily SUCCESS PLANNER at http://www.MyPersonalBusinessCoach.com and also contact them for your rapid-fire, laser focused Business Breakthrough Strategy Session by clicking here. They can also be reached by email at support@mypersonalbusinesscoach.com or by phone at 561.320.1517

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New Years Resolutions Do NOT Work!new years
by Shelley Mitchell, CPM, CAPS, CAM, COS, HCCP, MORSAre any of the resolutions you are considering or putting in to place today the same exact ones from last year or even remotely similar? What about your business/career? Your relationship? Your health? Your personal life? Your BUCKET LIST??? Your income and finances? Wouldn’t it be nice to set your intention today and actually ACCOMPLISH YOUR GOAL and NOT having to reset the same thing next year because something got in the way of accomplishing it as it did in 2012?There will be lots of roadblocks and obstacles that will be thrown in front of us in 2013. The difference is how equipped we re to handle them. There is a REAL WAY to actually reach your dreams and goals without having to beat your head up against a wall. My Personal Business Coach and My…

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ten great apps for getting things done

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this is a great article with a lot of time spent and well thought out. Thank you!

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podium2This is my second attempt at writing this post. The first time, in a quest for ‘objectivity’, I got bogged down in a treacly mix of scoring apps against criteria that were of my own choosing anyway. This time around I am opting for an unashamedly impressionistic approach: these are the task management apps I like best.

They are all compatible with David Allen’s Getting Things Done® (GTD®) methodology, capable of supporting basic to complex project management and with at least one mobile app (iPhone or iPad, ideally both). Despite meeting those criteria, Things, asana, FacileThings and several other pretty solid apps did not make the grade. Only ten apps will fit into a top–10 after all (I was reasonably good at maths at school).

My ranking is exactly that: a personal top ten, reflecting my preferences (I like a nice UI), my approach to productivity (David…

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Are Business Coaches focused on YOUR Bottom Line? or theirs???

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How many coaches or coaching programs out there have a lineup of successful clients who are truly making MORE MONEY?

 (& not just one-off testimonials you see here-and-there on stage or on a sales page… But real clients, day in and day out, who are consistently working on their business and are making MORE MONEY with the support of their mentor and coach?)

Truthfully… there aren’t MANY…

There are many coaches and coaching programs out there who can show you how to shine… They can show you how to get your systems in order… They can show you the “process” to build your business… and even give you the “magical secrets to social media”.

But to truly help you MAKE MORE MONEY and grow a sustainable business, you need a certain type of coach who can help you put it all together… you need a “LABOR DAY” COACH…

In honor of today, I coined this term to share my insight on this subject. 

A “LABOR DAY” COACH is a coach or mentor who:

  • knows HOW to do it and has done it themselves
  • is transparent about their own business and has honesty and integrity
  • is willing to share with you the exact way that they do it and what will help you as well
  • has a long line up of clients who they have already taken through this process and are making MORE MONEY
  • is willing to spend the time with you,
  • is willing to share their own resources,
  • is willing to PROMOTE you and refer you to others
  • will push you to get things done
  • is willing to JUMP IN, roll up their sleeves and help you reach your goals, especially in a time of need

 

and most importantly, they are someone who makes YOUR best interest their best interest… so you can truly CATAPULT your business forward.

Yes, we can coach you and send you on your way with the plan. (and we WILL give you a PLAN)  But what happens when you get stuck? What happens when you’re having a bad day or a bad week? (as we all do) Who do you turn to then?

We at My Personal Business Coach are one of the few coaching companies in this country who are TRULY FOCUSED ON THE BOTTOM LINE… 

 

YOUR bottom line… (not only ours)

 

We at My Personal Business Coach are one of the few coaching companies in this country who are TRULY FOCUSED ON THE BOTTOM LINE… 

 

YOUR bottom line… (not only ours)

We at My Personal Business Coach are one of the few coaching companies in this country who are TRULY FOCUSED ON THE BOTTOM LINE… 

 

YOUR bottom line… (not only ours)

We at My Personal Business Coach are 100% committed and dedicated to your success (as well as getting visibility)  We focus on your bottom line and helping you make more money.  

We take real business acumen, a team of certified coaches and countless years of successful corporate, small business, start up, and direct sale/MLM experience and roll it into creating a plan for you to build a sustainable growing business that puts money back into your bank account and not just into the pocket of your coach.  

When I started choosing coaches and mentors who operated in this morale philosophy, my business turned around.

When I started focusing on the right things, and prioritizing on what was most important, I started making a lot more money but …

even more importantly I started serving a lot more people and was able to help many more people tenfold than who I was touching before. 

Our six-week signature program was derived from this huge need we saw in our industry of people running IPA_logo-01around trying to do 100 different things thinking that is what is going to make the money.  To see the frustration in their eyes and to hear that they wanted to QUIT and give up on their dream, really PISSED ME OFF!  I knew I had to help…

This program was designed to helping them to focus, get clear on their message, get their marketing strategies and tactics nailed down, have the systems in place that they need and then IMPLEMENTING so they can make more money.

 

100% of our graduates and even people who simply followed our process started making more money, some as soon as the first four days!

Now, that is our introductory program and it is priced very affordably… and the next one starts on Wednesday.

This program is only $397 and it includes tremendous amount of value.  As an IPA’er, you can always return anytime you desire when we run the program for life for absolutely no additional cost.

Our private clients are required to go through this program and we give it to them for free. It’s THAT IMPORTANT!

Now if you are ready to dive in and be very serious and committed about your business and want the mentorship of someone with years of real business experience (and a long list of clients who are truly making more money) who will hold your hand and help you get it done, then we have exactly what you need!

Whether there are a few steps that you simply wish you knew or even if you know exactly what you need to do but want that support and that mentor who is totally on your side and looking out for your best interest, then know that we’ve created this Labor Day special just for you!

Our costs are low… starting and growing a six-figure business as a single mom with no money in a savings account, I quickly learned the ways to grow a business on a shoestring budget. I know what it’s like and I help my clients to build their business without having to spend gobs of money on creating things that do not pay off.  

Because of this, our coaching programs are typically lower priced than any other nationally recognized business coaching program.  

We also feel that people should have the resources they need to get high quality, true business coaching and consulting that they need without having to “mortgage the house”

Our basic Gold coaching program is designed for those who only need a small amount of support or can only afford an entry program at this time.  (and we help them GROW to the next level) We filled that WIDE GAP in this industry with our Gold coaching program

But IF YOU WANT IT ALL…  then we have our Platinum Coaching Program and single VIP CATAPULT Days as well.

What would it be like if you..

  • had that “Board of Directors” at your disposal anytime to get the answers you needed and
  • all of the administrative and technical support that you so desire,
  • had real HONEST answers of what you needed and Did NOT need in your business
  • knew how to PRIORITIZE your day and all of your activities for the most BANG for your BUCK
  • knew how to hire the right team at the lowest cost
  • knew what SYSTEMS you needed that made your life EASIER and didn’t kill your checkbook
  • knew how to get SPEAKING ENGAGEMENTS
  • knew HOW to put your Programs and Services together
  • knew how to put on a teleseminar and HOW to properly promote it
  • knew How to get JVs/Affiliates and even SPONSORS for your events

 

 but more importantly,

What would your life be like if you truly knew HOW to GET MORE CLIENTS, serve more people and MAKE MORE MONEY???

Oh, did I mention that all of our Coaching Programs have a TOTAL HAPPINESS GUARANTEE!?!

Get One Month Free of our NEXT LEVEL Program!

As our gift to you, for all of your LABOR you put  into your business, we want you to be able to EXPERIENCE our next level program.  (yes, current clients can renew for this also)

Today’s Labor Day special is YOUR CHOICE!

when you purchase one of our coaching programs, you will either

get one month free of the entire “next level”  just so you can try it out

Or

receive a flat 10% discount on any program you so choose.

 

Remember, the “Get your IPA on!” program is free and included with all of our coaching programs.  

 Note:  IPA’ers... If you are already in our IPA program and want to upgrade, you will receive a full credit for any money you have already paid.  

How do you retrieve this or get information about this amazing deal?

You simply click here to request information and we will ensure that you are tagged for this great special. Someone will call schedule a consultation to find out what your true needs and desires are and we will be able to recommend or design a program that best fits YOUR NEEDS, not ours…

If you are ready to CATAPULT YOUR BUSINESS and your life to SUPER SUCCESS then CLICK HERE